Comparison is the Thief of Joy

Can we all take a minute out of our day to acknowledge this truth?

 I love that as a stay at home mom, social media is sometimes the one thing that keeps me connected to the outside world. I love seeing what my friends are up to....but sometimes, I will admit, I get a little jealous. There, I said it. Maybe I'm the only one...but I doubt it. It seems like some people have such perfect lives. They seemingly take vacations every week, their husbands send them flowers for no reason once a month and their children are super genius prodigies with not a speck or stain on their perfectly styled boutique outfits. Today, when scrolling through your news feed, please remember that comparison is the thief of JOY. 

That family who seems to take a trip every single week may have 2 parents working hard, long hours each day.  Those weekend getaways may be the only time they can get away from all the distractions and spend quality family time together.  Let's celebrate that regardless of the circumstances, these are families spending time together.  Families are breaking apart every day, let's celebrate that some people are not giving up and doing whatever it takes to stay together. 

The mom who gets flowers from her husband just because- who even cares what's happened on the other side of this picture.  Can we just celebrate for a moment that chivalry still exists and this husband took time to make his wife feel loved and appreciated! 

The super genius prodigy children- let's celebrate that these parents are investing in this child's future and thus grooming someone who will one day be a productive member of society.  Besides, we all know that "our" child is the smartest, most amazing, wonderful little human on the planet.  

Those perfectly styled children in their spotless outfits?  Come on, we all know it was all that mom could do to get a picture BEFORE total mayhem enviably occurred and chocolate, spaghetti sauce, or marker got all over those precious outfits she scored on Zulily or 75% off  clearance.  She just wanted to savor that brief moment in time when it "looked" like she had it all together.  

Facebook is all smoke and mirrors. We don't know what is on the other side of all those positive social media posts and pictures. Let's all find True JOY and happiness with our current season of life despite how messy, hard or chaotic it may be.