Monday, October 12, 2015

Mom- It's OK to Vent Without Feeling Guilty

Sometimes parenting can be so completely frustrating. There are the endless questions, the temper tantrums, the sleepless nights and accidents that still happen despite your best baby and childproofing attempts. Some days are just hard. What can make things just a little worse in your already hard, frustratingly difficult day? Deciding to "vent" to someone who, despite good intentions I'm sure, put you on a guilt trip by saying things like, "They won't be little forever, so enjoy these days," or "These are the easy years." While I'm sure the intention is to change that moms perspective and focus on the big picture, the fact of the matter is, she simply wants someone to empathize with her and acknowledge that yes, some days are really tough. There are days you already feel like a completely and total failure and the guilt trip just sends you right on over the edge. We all know that the years pass all too quickly, but knowing that doesn't always make those LONG days any easier. To all the moms out there feeling like you are in the thick of it, here's a virtual fist bump. ðŸ‘ŠYou're going to make it!

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